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Can I Save My Marriage?
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Paula's Story When it happened I was totally devastated! The very last thing I expected him to say to me was "I want a divorce".

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Can I Save My Marriage? If you're reading this you must be having a very rough time in your relationship.

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What About My Children? Do you need practical advice about dealing with matters and situations regarding your children during a divorce?

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I Need a Divorce Lawyer! There comes a time when you just know you've reached the point where you really do need the help and advice of a divorce lawyer.  Consult my comprehensive directory of over 5,000 legal resources for divorce issues.  
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Welcome to My Divorce Help & Advice Site

Divorce AdviceIf you're the kind of woman who wants to break free from the worry, hurt and limitations of your bad marriage or divorce... the information in this website will help set you free!

I feel your pain. You're at your wit's end, possibly feeling betrayed and bitter... and it may not be your fault. You feel you've done everything you can to start rebuilding your life... but there's still something holding you back.
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For years, women just like you have asked this same question. Fortunately, some have been able to answer this, and many other questions, by following the guidance provided within this website.

My name is Paula Michaels and I have established this divorce advice website in the hope that it will empower women to move beyond the struggle, heartache  and suffering usually associated with a divorce, so that they may be able to cope with and manage their own circumstances, and get on with a positive life!


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Divorce Help & Divorce Advice: Paula's Story

When it happened I was totally devastated! The very last thing I expected him to say to me was "I want a divorce".

For a short time I was simply too stunned to think. Then it hit me...

All of the desperate questions...

  • What will I do now?
  • How can I tell the kids?
  • Can I possibly save my marriage?
  • What about money to live?
  • Where will I live?
  • What will my family think?
  • What will my friends think?
  • How can I get divorce help?
  • Where can I get divorce advice?
  • Why do I feel so clueless?
  • Why do I feel so BAD?

I couldn't even think of any desperate answers. I just wallowed in a sludge of despairing self-pity.

And I felt so utterly alone.

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Divorce Advice: Take Action To Repair A Troubled Relationship

If you're enduring a relationship that is in trouble, but are fearful of doing something about it, please listen up!  By choosing to not do something to alter the conduct of a relationship that is in trouble, you may be doing a great disservice to yourself, your spouse, as well as your hopes for success in the future.
 
Anxiety over talking candidly and honestly with your significant-other will not enhance the situation of relationship. Often you really have to "rock the boat" to bring about a change and steer yourself back on the correct path. Even if someone's feelings get upset along the way or your spouse doesn't think there is a problem, talking about issues before the problems you believe exist eat away at you is a necessity.
 
The facts are that, even if your partner does not see that your relationship is in trouble, if you think you do, you do. To approach your issues head on and stay away from further concerns down the track, you should bring your problems out into the light of day and try to rectify them jointly as a couple.

Even if your endeavors to rebuild a strained relationship do not succeed, making a constructive move forward is always worth the attempt. By not taking action to save a troubled relationship when you are aware of the obvious telltale signs, you could experience the following consequences:

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