When the divorce process begins to move along, you may find that your self-esteem is completely gone. You need to learn how to rebuild your confidence so that you can move on successfully after the divorce. Moving on successfully means that you are okay not being married to him anymore.
It may take months or even a year to get there, and it can be a lot of work. Some women will take it really hard and the shock of the divorce can be devastating. You need to learn how to focus on the positive things and learn how to appreciate what you've got. You will feel a lot better about your life when you learn how to think positively.
These articles focus upon what you can do to get on with your life, in the most positive way that you can. I hope you can find words here that encourage you to learn what you really want from your life, and then take the necessary action to achieve it.
You were divorced several years ago and now are wondering how a new marriage after divorce would work out. The first one did not go so well and even though you were married for years you were just never that happy. Was it you? Was it him? Who really can answer that question? Hopefully the lawyers chimed in on this one.
My suggestion would be to talk out your insecurities with a professional before entering into another long term relationship. You are scared and have every right to be. Have faith though you can have the relationship you want and be happy for the rest of your life if you are ready to put in the work.