I'm really sorry. If you're reading this you must be having a very rough time in your relationship.
I know how difficult that can be. If you are asking, "How can I save my marriage?", I do have many tips and suggestions in these articles that might be able to make a difference for you and your husband.
What are some reasons you would have to fix your marriage? It does not matter how long a couple has been married, problems can arise at any time. If life gets in the way, the two of you need to stop and take a step back. Take some time to re-evaluate the things that are important in your lives.
The most important factor in any relationship is the ability of the two people involved to communicate effectively. When communication breaks down you will find the relationship is in trouble. Ineffective communication can lead to misunderstandings. Misunderstandings can lead to hurt feelings and resentments. Hurt feelings and resentments can lead to divorce.
So if you do not want to give all of your money to a couple of lawyers you need to learn how to fix your marriage.